We asked five single parents to share their stories.
我們請五個單親爸媽分享自己的故事。
My name is Lin. I'm 29 years old. I've been a single parent for about seven years now.
我叫做 Lin。今年 29 歲。我目前已經當單親媽媽七年了。
My name is Shea, and my son's name is Leon. He's four.
我的名字是 Shea,我兒子叫 Leon。他四歲。
I'm the father to five-year-old Cydney.
我是五歲的 Cydney 的爸爸。
My fiance was sleeping. And I had a dream that I was pregnant. And I went into the bathroom and took the pregnancy test. And I could not have been happier. He broke up with me that night.
那時候我未婚夫在睡覺。我夢到我自己懷孕了。我就到浴室驗孕。我真的是太開心了。結果他當天晚上就跟我分手了。
But I knew I had to get myself together because that was not a place I wanted to be. I need to do something to make a change.
但我知道我必須振作,因為我不想陷在那裡。我知道如果我想要改變的話,就得做點什麼。
Shortly after Cydney was born, Cydney's mother still had some complications, and she passed away December 9, 2011.
Cydney 出生不久後,Cydney 的媽媽還有一些併發症,後來她在 2011 年 12 月 9 號過世了。
There are so many moments where I look to my side, expecting to, like, share that moment witnessing something that Leon's doing with someone, and they're not there. You share your moments with solitude instead of someone else.
常常有這種時刻,我看向身旁,想要在見證 Leon 做了某些事情之後跟某個人分享,卻沒有人在身邊。你只能與孤獨分享這些時刻。
I felt so...totally alone, frightened, embarrassed.
我覺得很...非常孤單、害怕、窘迫。
Yeah, there were times I'd break down. I really started to lose faith. Like, I just can't do this.
對,有時候我會崩潰。我會真的開始失去信念。就覺得,我真的做不到。
We asked their kids to tell us about their favorite superheroes. The kids didn't know their parents were listening.
我們問了這些家長的孩子自己最愛的超級英雄是誰。孩子們並不知道爸媽正在聽他們的訪談。
Spider-Man. Spider-Man helps people.
蜘蛛人。蜘蛛人會幫助別人。
Batman. Because when people need help, they go fast, and they go and help them, even in the middle of the night.
蝙蝠俠。因為有人需要幫助的時候,蝙蝠俠會很快就去幫他們,即使是在深夜他也會趕過去。
My favorite superhero is Batgirl. Save the day, and keep people safe, and fight bad guys?
我最愛的超級英雄是蝙蝠女孩。因為她會拯救大家、保護大家,也會打擊壞人?
I think making sacrifices to do better. He's strong and uses it for the right reasons.
我想是因為他會犧牲小我,做出更棒的選擇。他把自己超強的能力運用在對的地方。
Superwoman. I like her. And she kinda reminds me of my mom. Like how superwoman always wanna help other people, my mom always helps me.
女超人。我很喜歡她。她也有點讓我聯想到我媽媽。就像女超人都會幫助他人一樣,我媽媽總是幫我。
I mean, I guess I could say my mom is my Superman. My mom is my Superman. I'm realizing my mom really does everything for me like Superman would do everything for the city.
我的意思是,我覺得可以說我媽是我心目中的超人。我媽是我的超人。我漸漸了解到,我媽真的為了我願意做所有事情,就像超人願意為了整個城市付出一切一樣。
I think my dad is a superhero because I'm scared of thunder, and every time there's a thunderstorm, he just stays with me.
我覺得我爸爸是超級英雄,因為我很怕打雷,但每次打雷的時候,我爸爸都會陪在我身邊。
Yeah, I try to act really cool when I'm at home. I'm like, "Bye, Mom. I'm going out." But I think I really need to tell her that I absolutely love her. She's done everything right. Even if she's made a mistake, it's been right. And she's such a role model for me.
我在家裡都會裝酷。我會這樣講:「掰,媽。我要出去喔。」但我想我真的需要告訴她我真的愛她。她做的每件事情都是對的。即使有時候可能會失誤,她依然是對的。她真的是我的楷模。
What? Oh my God, that was a good one. How are you? I love you, Mom.
什麼?天哪,你們很會耶。妳好嗎?媽,我愛妳。
My mommy loves me, and I love her.
我媽咪愛我,我也愛她。
It's when I see how he can treat other people and how sweet he is, I know that I'm doing something right.
我看到他對待別人如此貼心,我就知道我做對了。
Every time he does things for me, and I do the same thing for him; we just both like it.
他每次為我做一些事情的時候,我也會同樣為他做一些事;我們都很喜歡這樣。
Daddy.
爹地。
Yes?
怎麼了?
I think you're a good parent.
我覺得你是好爸爸。
Oh, thank you, baby.
噢,謝謝妳,寶貝。
Everyone has fears, even superheroes. But they don't let those fears define them. Neither should you.
每個人都有恐懼,即使是超級英雄也有。但他們不會讓恐懼束縛自己。你也不該讓恐懼束縛自己。
I just want him to know that.
我只是想讓他知道。