In this video, I'm gonna show you three ways to compliment a guy to make him fall for you. And watch all the way to the end because I have something very special waiting for you that you do not want to miss.
在這部影片中,我會帶你們看三種讓男人愛上你的讚美方式。要從頭看到尾喔,因為我有一個你不會想錯過的特別驚喜在等著你。
The first way to compliment a guy is on his style. Now, many people, when they're walking up to someone, think about how to compliment their looks: You have a great smile, you have beautiful eyes...all of those kinds of things. Not only is this a very direct way to go and approach someone, one that most of us are scared to do, but it also is complimenting someone on something they didn't choose. None of us chose our looks. But we did choose our style. So, when you go up to a guy and you say, "I love those jeans!" or "Those shoes are so cool!" not only is it safer and less direct; it's actually more meaningful.
第一種讚美一個男生的方式是稱讚他的風格。很多人在走向一個人的同時,心裡想的是要怎樣稱讚他們的外表:你的笑容很棒、你的眼睛很美...都是那類事情。這樣接近人不僅是種過於直接的方式,我們大多數人都很怕這麼做,而且這還是在稱讚某人一件非自主的事。我們沒有人選擇了自己的外表。不過我們確實選擇了我們的風格。因此,當你走向一個男的然後你說:「我好喜歡那條牛仔褲喔!」或是「那鞋子真獨特!」這不僅比較安全又比較婉轉;這種讚美其實還更有意義。
The second way to compliment a guy is to talk about his hidden traits. Let's say a guy is good at the guitar. He's probably been complimented on that an awful lot. So when he goes and plays, everyone comes up to him and says, "Oh my God! You're so good! You're amazing at that!" It loses its meaning after a while. So, now when you compliment the guy on that thing, you're just like everybody else. But if you can compliment the trait that made him good at the guitar in the first place, he will be much more sentimental about that. So, if it's just the discipline to keep playing every single day, even when it was hard to get to that point, that's something he's more likely to have meaning for than just being good at the guitar.
第二種讚美一個男生的方式是講到他不為人知的特質。好比說有個男的很會彈吉他。他或許已經收過太多那樣的讚美。在他彈吉他的時候,大家都走向他然後說:「天啊!你好厲害!你超會彈吉他耶!」這過一陣子就失去意義了。所以當你讚美那男生那件事時,你就和其他人沒兩樣。不過要是你能夠一開始就稱讚讓他變得很會彈吉他的那項特質,他會對那讚美更有感覺。如果是每天持續不斷練彈的那種自律能力,即使當要做到那地步很難,那麼那對他來說可能是比只是「很會彈吉他」還要有意義的讚美。
The third way to compliment a guy that makes him fall for you—and I cannot overstate the importance of this—play to his masculinity. Show him how much of a man you really think he is. If a guy feels like a guy around you, he'll wanna be around you more.
第三種讓一個男生愛上你的讚美方式--我無法強調這有多重要--迎合他的男子氣概。讓他知道在你心中他是怎樣一個真男人。如果一個男的在你身邊覺得像個男人,他就會更想多待在你身邊。
Now, there is one amazing line that you can use to do this. And if you like this line, you're gonna love what I give you in a few seconds. You say to a man, "I feel so safe whenever I'm around you." Just saying that to a guy makes him feel like Superman. But more specifically, it makes him feel like Superman...with you. Not everyone makes him feel that way. So if he feels that powerful with you, he's gonna be drawn to you.
現在,有一句你可以用來達到這效果的神奇台詞。如果你喜歡這句話,那你會很愛我等一下要給你的內容。你對一個男人說:「每次在你身邊我都覺得好安全。」單是對男人說那句話就會讓他覺得像超人一樣。不過更明確地說,是會讓他和你在一起時覺得自己就像超人。不是每個人都能讓他有那種感覺。所以如果他和你在一起的時候覺得那麼充滿力量,他就會被你吸引。
So, if you like these, I have a special surprise for you. I have five more compliments that get any man to chase you—I don't care if you've known them for five minutes or five years. To get these compliments, go to SayThisToHim.com. There I literally have a free guide that has five compliments that will have any man drawn to you like a magnet. Literally, take any one of them, say them to a guy that you like, that you're attracted to, that you want more from, and watch the results in real time.
如果你喜歡這些,我準備了一個特別驚喜給你。我還有五句能讓任何男人追著你跑的讚美--管你是才認識他五分鐘還是認識五年了。要取得這些讚美金句,就到 SayThisToHim.com。我在那真的有一份免費指南,內含五句會讓任何男人就像磁鐵一樣被你吸引的讚美。真的,挑其中任何一句,對你喜歡、有好感、想更進一步的男人說,然後即時看見成效。
So, go to SayThisToHim.com; try them out today. I cannot wait to hear your results. I'll see you soon.
那麼,到 SayThisToHim.com;今天就試試那些方法。我等不及要聽你們大家的結果了。我們下回見。
- 「愛上某人」- Fall For Someone
In this video, I'm gonna show you three ways to compliment a guy to make him fall for you.
在這部影片中,我會帶你們看三種讓男人愛上你的讚美方式。 - 「首先、一開始」- In The First Place
But if you can compliment the trait that made him good at the guitar in the first place, he will be much more sentimental about that.
不過要是你能夠一開始就稱讚讓他變得很會彈吉他的那項特質,他會對那讚美更有感覺。