Have you been crushing on someone but wondering if it's becoming something more? Emotions can be messy and hard to decipher when all we hear is our loud heartbeats or feel giant butterflies in our stomach. The upside is that as we grow older and gain more relationship experience, the answer becomes more clear. Here are five differences between crushing on and falling in love with someone.
你有沒有迷戀過某個人，但也思考著這份感情是否有進一步的發展呢？情緒可能是混亂而且難以解讀的，當我們感到心跳加速，或當我們感到忐忑不安時。好消息是，隨著我們逐漸成長並累積更多感情經驗，答案就會越來越清晰。以下是關於迷戀某人和愛上某人的五個區別。
One: A crush develops fast, while love grows over time. When you first develop a crush on someone, it can feel fun, flirty, and exciting. It's a lot like dancing with a flame, but it doesn't last forever. Love, on the other hand, takes time to grow. It demands patience, understanding, and hard work. When we crush on someone, it's the loud adrenaline rush that pounds on our chest. Love, however, allows us to find inner peace within ourselves.
It's a lot quieter—subtle, even, and can sneak up on us when we least expect it.
一：迷戀發展迅速，而愛會隨著時間增長。當你一開始對某人產生迷戀時，可能會感覺很有趣、曖昧和興奮。這就跟與火共舞很像，但這種感覺不會一直持續。另一方面，愛需要時間培養。它需要耐心、理解和努力。當我們迷戀某人時，會有一種巨大的腎上腺素刺激著我們的胸腔。然而，愛讓我們找到內心的平靜。它更加寧靜－－甚至有一點微妙，而且會在我們毫無防備的時候悄悄出現。
Two: A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections. Have you ever liked someone because they shared the same interests as you? A crush forms from basic information like that. Maybe the two of you have the same favorite color or you can quote an entire movie together from beginning to end. But that's not necessarily love. Love isn't afraid to dive in the deep. It asks us to be vulnerable and go past the small talk—hobbies and picture-perfect Kodak moments. It's sharing secrets, and sometimes it means confronting the past and mending together.
二：迷戀會從基本、表面的事物產生而愛則是從深層的連結中茁壯。你有沒有曾經因為某個人跟你有共同的興趣而喜歡上他呢？迷戀就是從那樣的基本資訊中產生。可能你們兩個喜歡一樣的顏色，或是你們可以一起將某部電影的台詞從頭到尾背出來。但那不一定是愛。愛禁得起進入更深層的世界。它使我們展現脆弱並讓我們跨越那些閒聊－－興趣和值得用照片留念的美好回憶。愛在於分享祕密，有時候也意味著面對過去並一起療傷。
Three: A crush might feel insecure, while love stems from trust. Crushing on someone can leave you feeling insecure when you compare yourself to others. But love is built on the foundation of trust. When you love someone, you feel at ease with them. You are neither possessive nor jealous. Love teaches us to let go of our fears, whereas crushing on someone allows them to linger.
三：迷戀可能會使人沒安全感，愛則是出於信任。當我們迷戀某人時，會因為與其他人的比較而感到不安。但愛是建立在信任的基礎上。當你愛著某人時，會覺得和他相處很自在。你既不會有佔有慾也不會吃醋。愛教我們克服恐懼，而迷戀只會使恐懼一直徘徊。
Four: A crush feels new, while love feels familiar. When you crush on someone, it often feels fresh and young. But as you get to know someone better, love forms, making you enter rooms that feel familiar. It's like being with your best friend—someone who knows you inside and out; perhaps better than you may know yourself. When you're crushing on someone, you're too shy to even make it past the welcome mat.
四：迷戀令人感到新鮮，而愛則令人感到熟悉。當你迷戀某人時，常常會感到新奇。但隨著你越來越了解一個人，愛就會滋長，帶你進入熟悉的氛圍。這就像跟你最好的朋友相處一樣－－一個從內而外懂你的人；或許可能比你還要了解自己。當你在迷戀某人時，甚至會害羞到連上前打招呼都不敢。
Five: A crush is reckless, while love is mature. Ever had a crush on someone that made you scratch your head years later? Crushes can be confusing, reckless, and inconsistent. Love isn't so easily discarded, though. When love begins, so does maturity. You learn how to be vulnerable, how to compromise, and how to grow with someone. It's more than just a feeling, but a life-changing experience.
五：迷戀是魯莽的，而愛是成熟的。你有沒有曾經迷戀過某人，但卻在多年後困惑不已呢？迷戀可能會令人不解、魯莽又善變。但愛不會那麼容易被拋棄。當愛萌芽時，我們也會跟著成長。你會學習如何展現脆弱、如何妥協以及如何與他人成長。它不僅僅是一個感覺，而是一場會改變人生的經歷。
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- 「悄悄地靠近某人」- sneak up on someone
It's a lot quieter—subtle, even, and can sneak up on us when we least expect it.
它更加寧靜－－甚至有一點微妙，而且會在我們毫無防備的時候悄悄出現。 - 「源自、由…造成」- stem from
Three: A crush might feel insecure, while love stems from trust.
三：迷戀可能會使人沒安全感，愛則是出於信任。 - 「埋頭苦思」- scratch someone's head
Ever had a crush on someone that made you scratch your head years later?
你有沒有曾經迷戀過某人，但卻在多年後困惑不已呢？
